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洁癖?零食癖?收藏癖?你有什么癖?“癖”来自何方?为何会有内心的强追成癖、欲罢不能?比如刻盘癖,反复大量地下载、刻盘.刻了也不看,花钱,花时间,伤光驱,过了几年还坏了,还要伤感情;比如恋物癖,狂爱购买某一类东西,却一次也没用过。比如……它们的魔力让我们强迫自己无休止地反复地做着同一件事,同一个行为,如果不做就过不去内心这个坎儿。心理专家告诉我们,如果各种各样的“癖”发展到严重的程度,如果你已经为这种着魔般的神经症状而痛苦,就有可能接近“以强迫观念和强迫动作为主要表现的一种神经症”——“强迫症”。如果你看过《老友记》,就肯定知道“强迫症”是什么样的。没错,跟Monica一样。Monica生活在自己的“整洁”的思想中,并且逼迫她的朋友们绝对遵从。也许,我们应该放下心结,回到最初的生活状态。
Kneading? Snack addiction? Addiction? You what addiction? “Addiction ” from where? Why there is a strong heart chase into addiction, unable to stop? For example, carved addiction, repeated heavy downloads, engraved plate. Engraved nor Look, spend money, spend time, hurt light drive, after a few years still bad, but also hurt feelings; such as fetishism, crazy love to buy a certain type of thing, but never used. For example ... Their magic forces us to force ourselves to do the same thing endlessly and repeatedly, with the same behavior, if we fail to do so. Psychologists tell us that if all sorts of “addiction” develop to a serious degree, if you have been suffering for such magical neurological symptoms, you are likely to be closer to “obsessing over obsessions and forced action Performance of a neurosis ”- “ obsessive-compulsive disorder ”. If you read Friends, you know for sure what OCD is. That’s right, just like Monica. Monica lives in her own “neatness” and persecutes her friends absolutely. Perhaps, we should put down the knot, back to the original state of life.