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在公园晨练,看见三五成群的老年人聚在一起谈天说地。我经常去凑凑热闹,听一听,偶尔也插上几句嘴发表点意见。大家所谈内容极为广泛,上至国家大事、全球要闻;下至养生保健、生活百科,说到开心处,大家开怀大笑。我认为谈天说地有三大好处:开阔眼界、增长知识、消除孤独。同时,我认为谈天说地有三大忌讳:一忌所谈内容没有新意。翻来覆去,无趣无味;二忌谈论人是人非。这样容易伤感情、损友谊;三忌好抬杠。为一件小事各持己见,争得面红耳赤就得不偿失了。
Morning exercise in the park, saw a small group of elderly people together to talk to the ground. I often go to make fun of, listen to, and occasionally also plug in a few words published opinions. We talked about a very wide range of content, from the national major event, the world’s top news; down to health care, encyclopedia of life, happy to say, we laugh. I think there are three major benefits to talking about: broaden their horizons, increase their knowledge and eliminate loneliness. At the same time, I think there are three taboo to talk about: a taboo content does not have new ideas. Over and over, boring and tasteless; Second, avoid talking about people is non-human. So easy to hurt feelings, loss of friendship; three avoid good bickering. Seeking a trifle and gaining fame will outweigh the benefits.