字里行间,我们能感受到班主任对学生母亲般的细致关爱。但这样的爱,是失理的。说失理,是指班主任忽视了学生个体发展的自主性。家长的想法,真的如班主任所说,是在“折磨孩子”吗?作为一名中学生,他已经拥有,也应当拥有一些基本的独立生活能力了,更不是做什么都要在 Between the lines, we can feel the class teacher’s meticulous care for the student mother. But such love is wrong. Misconduct means that the teacher neglects the autonomy of individual students. The idea of ​​parents, as the head teacher really said, is “torturing children?” As a middle school student, he already has, and should have some basic ability to independent living, but not to do anything at