捐资助学、扶困济贫,从古到今都是一项值得称颂的义举。然而,在不久前的南京,却出了这样一起案件——一位退休的高级教师和他的老伴儿慷慨捐资5000元,帮助一位无业妇女读大学的儿子完成了学业;又出资1万元,资助她开起饭店,走上了脱贫之路。然而,受益者非但没有感恩戴德,反而把恩人告上了法庭!这真称得上中国上下五千年、煌煌天地间的一桩奇案!此案经南京玄武区人民法院受理,惊动了中央电视台[今日说法]专栏。如今,在司法人员的斡旋下,当事人已达成庭外和解。被告以4万元的赔偿与原告做了了断。一段恩怨情仇也已如烟飘过。然而,爱过恨过,哭过笑过;一场闹剧落下帷幕之后,它那油里掺了水、蜜里生了蛆的变了味儿的结局,却使人们不禁愕然:这好人还能不能做?应该怎么做?虽说上帝在造人的时候,就赋予了人不全是高级的七情六欲,就注定了人与生俱来的弱点,但是以本案当事人而论,由乐善好施到苟且偷情,由“恩爱夫妻”到反目冤家,这人格的落差是否也忒大了点儿?尽管现今商品经济社会,人们无论生存或发展都离不开一个“钱”字,但在触及情爱婚姻这人性中最善美温柔的领域,仍然离不开一个“钱”字,仍需要用钱来维系或了断,这确是人类的羞耻乃至悲哀。为了让我们的心灵多一丝阳光,少一片阴影,为了让我们的情感多一分真诚少一分俗媚,为了人们对生活现象于罪与非罪的界定之外,对坚守节操与人伦情感有更深入的思索,本刊对此案组织了这次深度报道,并期望百万读者共同参与讨论。来稿观点、文风不限,见仁见智皆可,争议未必有定论,只要收到以人为鉴、铸造良知的效果,就是我们的目标。来稿信封上请注明“百家评谈”专栏收,字数以500字以内为宜,截稿日期为3月20日,文章一经采用,将付相应稿酬。 It is a laudable act of righteousness and sincerity to donate money for education and help the poor and help the poor. However, not long ago in Nanjing, there was a case in which a retired senior teacher and his wife generously donated 5,000 yuan to help an unemployed woman finish her studies at the university’s son and invested 10,000 yuan , Funded her to open the hotel, embarked on the road to poverty alleviation. However, the beneficiary not only did not feel grateful, but instead sent the benefactor to the court! This is really worthy of a strange case between Huanghuang and Huangshan, which was accepted by the Nanjing Xuanwu District People’s Court, which alerted China Central Television [Today’s argument] column. Now, with the good offices of the judiciary, the parties have reached an out-of-court settlement. The defendant made a judgment of 40,000 yuan with the plaintiff. A feud of love has also drifted across. However, loved hate, crying and laughing; a farce ended, it was mixed with oil, honey maggots have changed the outcome of the taste, but people can not help but stunned: this good man can What should be done? Although God has given people partiality a high degree of bestiality when they made human beings, they are destined to be born with weaknesses. However, in the case of the parties concerned, they are bestowed with goodwill “Loving husband and wife ” to oppose the enemy, whether this personality gap also Intuit a big point? Although today’s commodity economy, people regardless of their survival or development are inseparable from a “money ” word, but in touch with love marriage This most beautiful and gentle field of human nature is still inseparable from a “money ”, still need money to maintain or cut off, it is indeed human shame and even sadness. In order to make our hearts a little more sunshine, less a shadow, in order to make our feelings a little more sincere and less popular, in order to people’s life phenomenon in the definition of crime and non-crime, abide by the martial arts and human feelings have More in-depth thinking, the magazine organized this in-depth coverage of the case, and expect millions of readers to participate in the discussion. Contribution draft, writing style, opinion of opinion can be, the controversy may not be conclusive, as long as people learn from, the effect of casting conscience, is our goal. Contributions, please indicate on the envelope “100 comments ” column received, the number of words to less than 500 words, deadline for the March 20, the article once adopted, will pay the corresponding remuneration.