家长要教育好刚升入中学的孩子 ,必须了解该时期学生如下的身心变化特点 :“成人感”提前发展 ,“自尊心”增强 ,已经形成某些价值观 ,自控能力尚差。要改变把孩子看成自己的私有财产和把自己的理想强加给孩子的错误做法 ,应根据孩子的身心发展规律 ,尊重孩子 ,正确对待孩子的“逆反心理” ,做孩子的知心朋友。 Parents who want to educate their children who have just started to go to high school must understand the characteristics of physical and psychological changes of students during the period as follows: “Adult feeling” advances in advance and “self-esteem” increases. Some values ​​have been formed and the ability of self-control is still poor. To change the mistreatment of children as their own private property and impose their own ideals on children should be based on the laws of physical and mental development of children, respect for children, correct treatment of children’s “rebelliousness,” as a close friend of children.