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当小学老师多年,接触很多家长。在与孩子朝夕相处的过程中,孩子们的天真烂漫、家长的通情达理,都给我留下深刻的印象,可是也存在许多无奈,甚至是有苦难言。特别是当我们发现孩子与其他同学相处过程中出现问题,向家长反映真实情况时,有些家长要么不能接受孩子表现不好的事实,要么认为老师言过其实。更有甚者,当着老师的面打孩子,闹情绪,说一些不该说的话,致使孩子和老师对着干,使原本简单的问题变得复杂。这样一来,孩子不但无法认识、改正缺点,家长和老师也容易在心中结下疙瘩,造成教育的失败。
When primary school teachers for many years, contact a lot of parents. In the process of getting along with the children from morning till evening, the children are very innocent and the parents are very understanding. All of this left a deep impression on me. However, there are many helpless and even painful words. Especially when we find that children have problems with other students and reflect the truth to parents, some parents either can not accept the fact that their children do not behave well or think of teachers as exaggerated. What is more, playing children in front of a teacher makes no choice but to say something that should not be said, causing the children and the teacher to do the wrong things, complicating the simple problems. As a result, not only children can not recognize and correct shortcomings, parents and teachers can easily linger in the hearts of knots, resulting in the failure of education.