最近收到好几位家长读者的来信,因为受到子女行为的困扰,并想改善自己和子女间的关系,他们急切地问我:“怎样才能成为一个好父母?”对于这样一个广泛而又复杂的问题,需要一本专著来讨论,不是本文这短短的篇幅所能概述的。但为了及时提供我的意见,以下把我认为最重要的部分写出来。 Recently received a letter from several parents readers, because of the behavior of their children and want to improve their relationship with their children, they are eager to ask me: “How can we become a good parent?” For such a wide and Complex issues need a monograph to discuss, not in this short article that can be outlined. But in order to provide my opinion in time, here is what I think is the most important part.