《农家女》编辑部:两个月前,我和邻居赵某因琐事发生争吵,不慎将赵某打伤住院。赵某出院后,要我赔偿医疗费、误工费等费用。毕竟是邻居,原来的关系也不错,我也觉得私下了结比较好。不过,我心里还是有些忐忑,不知私了是否有法律效力,且害怕赵某拿到赔偿款后又到法庭上告我。请问:民事纠纷可以私了吗? “Farmer girl” Editorial Department: Two months ago, my neighbor Zhao Zhao quarrel for trifles, accidentally will Zhao injured in hospital. Zhao discharged, I am required to pay medical expenses, lost wages and other expenses. After all, is a neighbor, the original relationship is not bad, I also think privately knot better. However, my heart is still a bit untidy, I do not know whether there is any legal effect, and afraid to get compensation after the money to Zhao told me in court. Excuse me: Can civil disputes be private?