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性爱的“真空期”可怕吗?至少,它是一种真实的存在。很多人的婚姻,都会在不经意间滑入这样的一种状态。我们对于婚姻中的性有过多少美好期待,就会对性爱“真空期”产生多少焦虑。其实,性爱“真空”只是婚姻中的一种状态。性在满足婚姻中的某种功能,“真空期”也一定在满足着人们内心的某种需要。表面上看,造成性爱“真空”的缘由有千丝百种,其实,都是为了满足我们内心的平衡,在潜意识里对性爱进行防御。所以,与其为自己婚姻中的性爱“真空期”叹息,不如早日走出自己的防御。
Sex “Depression period ” terrible? At least, it is a real existence. Many people’s marriage, will slip into such a state inadvertently. How much anxiety we have about sexuality in marriage and how much anxiety we have about sex “vacuum”? In fact, sex “vacuum ” is just a state of marriage. Sex in meeting some of the functions of marriage, “vacuum period ” must also meet some of the needs of people’s hearts. On the surface, there are thousands of reasons for sexual “vacuum”. In fact, all are to satisfy the balance of our heart and to defensive sex in the subconscious. So, rather than for their own marriage in the “vacuum” sigh, as soon as possible out of their defenses.