8月是属于父亲的季节,每每在8月8日父亲节的前后,总会想起这篇文章。20年前的相遇——做个比爸爸更好的爸爸淡水的冬天有些湿冷,在这里和小朋友度过水源的第二个冬天。平日会请两三位小朋友到宿舍吃饭,有时刻意、有时随兴。三五道简单的菜,总是吃得精光。我煮,他们洗碗筷。饭后就泡泡茶、聊聊天,或散步到其他同学家,顺道做个家庭访问。这样的日子,很有一种舒服的默契对待在里头。阿儒,一个心思细腻、情感丰富的大孩子。父母离异、父再娶,跟爷爷住。那天,在宿舍,他说出了心中对爸爸的怨与不满,也倾诉了对隔壁班女生想放弃却又 August is the father’s season, often in the August 8 Father’s Day before and after, always think of this article. Meet 20 years ago - be a better winter father than Daddy Daddy some cold, here and children spend the second winter water. Weekdays will be two or three children to the dormitory to eat, sometimes deliberately, sometimes with Xing. Three or five simple dishes, always eat fine. I cook, they wash dishes. After dinner bubble tea, chat, or take a walk to other students, take the opportunity to be a family visit. Such a day, there is a very comfortable understanding of the inside. A Confucianism, a delicate mind, emotional rich children. Divorced parents, the father remarried, living with grandfather. That day, in the dorm, he said the hearts of my father’s complaints and dissatisfaction, but also talked about the next class girls want to give up but also