我和老伴儿是在金婚后才开始牵手外出的。他比我大几岁,思想比我开朗,而我和他初次牵手走路还不那么习惯。那一年,老伴儿腿脚有些不灵活,走路怎么也快不起来,他就用左手或右手不时地向我伸来,握住我的手,还说“你牵住啊”。当时,我的心有几许心疼、几许爱意,还有几许感叹!之后,我们牵手的时候就越来越多了,习惯成自然。上老年大学,逛街,散步……我们都是这样牵着的。即使一路默默无语,而心却仿佛紧紧贴在一起,激发了我们内心炙热的情感,也展示着一份自然纯真的平和心态。 My wife and I started out after getting married. He was a little older than me, his mind was more cheerful than me, and I was not so used to walking with him for the first time. That year, his wife and children some inflexible legs and feet, walking how fast can not stand up, he will use his left hand or right hand extended to me, hold my hand and say “You hold on.” At that time, my heart a little distressed, how much love, there are a few laments! Later, when we hand more and more, used to be natural. Go to the old university, shopping, walking ... ... we are all so led. Even silently silent all the way, but the heart seems to be closely attached to stimulate our feelings of hot heart, but also show a natural peace of mind.