《论语·微子篇第十八》原文:周公谓鲁公曰:“君子不施其亲,不使大臣怨乎不以。故旧无大故,则不弃也。无求备于一人。”The Duke of Zhou addressed the Duke of Lu,saying:“The superior man does not loose his kinsmen;nor does he ever give occasion to hls chief retainers to chafe at not being used.None who have been long in his service does he ever dismiss without grave cause.He does not expect one man to be capable of everyhing.”译文君子对亲属不放纵。谈古论今 “The Analects of Confucius eighteenth chapter” Original: Zhou Gong said Lu Gong Yue: “gentlemen do not impose their own ancestry, not to minister not complain, so the old no big old, you do not abandon too. ”The Duke of Zhou addressed the Duke of Lu, saying: “ The superior man does not loose his kinsmen; nor does he ever give give occasion to hls chief retainers to chafe at not being used. None who have been long in his service does he ever dismiss without grave cause .He does not expect one man to be capable of everyhing. ”The translated gentleman does not indulge relatives. Talk about the ancient theory today