出身书香门第,又当了一辈子教书匠的我,一直觉得子女上大学,不过是天经地义的事。 两个子女,从开始学说话,我便教他们认字。五六岁,便让他们学书法、学弹琴。为了辅导他们,我几乎演遍了数理化各科的习题。结果,老大上山下乡,老二两次落第,都与上大学无缘。真是希望值越高,失望得越惨。我简直气呆了,埋怨妻“母教无方”,妻又批评我“揠苗助长”。我虽然不服,也无言以对。 41岁那年,得了一个小外孙。女儿、女婿在外地工 I was born in a book, I was a book teacher all my life, I always felt that children go to college, but it is a matter of course. Two children, from the beginning to learn to speak, I will teach them to read. Five or six years old, let them learn calligraphy, learn to play the piano. In order to help them, I practiced almost all the subjects of mathematics and physics. The results, the boss went to the countryside, the second one fell second, all missed the college. Really hope that the higher the value, the more disappointed the more miserable. I just gasped, complaining about his wife, “motherhood is not square,” wife also criticized me, “Xunmiaotongchang.” Although I am not satisfied, I am speechless. 41 years old, got a little grandson. Daughter, son-in-law in the field