四、有的放矢的运思接受赠言的对象多种多样,时间、地点、情况也各不相同,拟写赠言要收到应有的效果,就必须注意种种有关因素,做到运思有的放矢,赠与得体合宜。是写给至爱亲朋,还是点头之交;是写给前辈师长,还是晚生下级;是写给先进模范,还是犯了错误的同志;是写给性格豁达开朗者,还是郁郁寡欢者,等等,都要因人而异。例如,有两个成绩优异的高中学生陷入了早恋的漩涡,学习 Fourth, there is a definite purpose of thinking The subject of acceptance of a variety of gifts, time, place, situation is also different, to write a gift to receive the desired effect, we must pay attention to all sorts of relevant factors, so that the thought of thought, impartial decent. Is written to the beloved relatives and friends, or the nod of the turn; is written to the seniors, or late-born subordinates; is to write advanced models, or made the mistake of comrades; is open to the character of open-minded people, or unhappy, and so on , Must vary from person to person. For example, two high school students with excellent grades fall into the whirlpool of puppy love and learn