有天坐一个中年男人的车去小城访人,他一路开得慢,稳。他扭头对我说,你知道我为啥开这么慢吗?我说,你刚开车吧,是这样的,开的路多了,也就自然快起来。中年男人笑了,说,我一想起女儿,就开慢车了,我看见那些飙车的人,是没有家吧。我一瞬间就懂了。这个中年男人,三年前天赐爱女,改变了他此前规划的人生。女儿的出现,动荡的生活安静下来,坚硬的生活柔软下来。他对我说,无论如何,我得给自己的生命设置一个底线,陪伴女儿到十八岁吧,以前,总以为自己的身体足够强大,一点小病,扛一 One day, a middle-aged man’s car went to the town to visit a man. He was slow and steady all the way. He turned to me and said, Do you know why I was driving so slowly? I said that you just drove this way. Middle-aged man laughed and said, I think of her daughter, to open the local car, I saw those drag racing people, there is no home. I understand it in a flash The middle-aged man, Godsend three years ago, changed the life of his previous plan. The emergence of her daughter, the turbulent life of quiet down, hard life soft down. He told me that in any case, I have to set a bottom line for my life, to accompany my daughter to the age of eighteen. In the past, I always thought my body was strong enough, a little sick and carrying a