贴桌就是吃蹭饭,非正式宾客跟随宾客去参加主人设的宴席。我出生在上世纪60年代,尽管当时人们的生活水平还很低下,但谁家有个红白喜事也都会设宴席,当然也是借此机会收礼钱。如果是白喜事,等送葬的回来就简单吃一顿,毕竟是老人“走”了,没有热闹的气氛。菜肯定是以豆腐为主,为什么葬礼后约定俗成要吃豆腐菜,其说法不一。我当时自作聪明地以为,可能是豆腐跟孝布的颜色一致。如果哪家姑娘出嫁,只招待一下远道而来贺喜的亲属,不设宴招待左邻右舍本屯子的。但屯 Stick table is to eat Cengfan, informal guests to follow the guests to attend the host set banquet. I was born in the 60s of last century, although people’s living standards were still very low at that time, but there was a red-and-white wedding for those who have banquets, of course, take the opportunity to receive money. If it is a good news, just come back to the funeral simply eat meal, after all, the elderly “go ”, and no lively atmosphere. The food is definitely based on tofu, why the tacit consent to eat tofu after the funeral, the different opinions. I was smart to think that the tofu may be the same color with filibuster. If you marry a girl, just entertain Hokkai relatives from afar, no banquet to entertain neighbors neighbors. But Tuen