很早以前读卡伦·荷尼的《自我的挣扎》一书,书中有一句话至今还记得:人无需硬教橡籽长成橡树,只要有适宜的环境,它凭借自己的力量就可以成长为橡树。这句话的意思很明白,要让橡籽成长为橡树,我们只需提供适合它成长的环境就足够了,而无需硬要教它如何成长。换句话说,要让橡籽成长为橡树就要按照橡籽的成长规律办事,千万不要做那种违背规律的揠苗助长的蠢事。这个道理同样也适合学前教育。如果说每个孩子都是一颗橡籽, A long time ago read Karen Horny’s Self-Struggle, a book still remembers: people do not have to teach hard rubber seed grow into oak, as long as there is a suitable environment, it can by virtue of its own power Grow into oak The meaning of this sentence is very clear, to make the oak grow oak, we only need to provide suitable environment for its growth is enough, without having to insist on how to teach it to grow. In other words, if you want to grow oaks into oaks, you must do the work according to the law of the growth of oaks. Do not do the stupid things that do not follow the law. The same is true for preschool education. If each child is an oak seed,