由于种种客观环境的影响,孩子在成长过程中发生转变的因素相当复杂,但归纳起来,他们大约受到下列几种外在压力的影响:一、成就的追求:做父母的当然都希望自己的孩子成就超过别人,或可以此炫耀人前。所以有些父母便送孩子去学琴棋书画、电脑或运动。却不了解他们本身的性向和志趣到底是什么?为不使父母脸上无光,孩子不断勉强自己去追求虚名 Due to the impact of various objective environments, children’s transformation in the process of growth is quite complicated. However, in summary, they are affected by the following external pressures: First, the pursuit of achievement: Parents, of course, want their children Achievements over others, or you can show off before. So some parents send their children to learn poetry and painting, computers or sports. But do not understand their own nature and interest in the end is what? In order not to make parents face dull, children continue to reluctantly pursue their own name