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一位即将初中毕业的男孩子向心理科学咨询热线倾诉说,自己最近特别害怕看到同班一个女孩的目光,一接触她的目光就立刻避开,觉得心里十分紧张,就像做错事了一样,但不由得又想多看她几眼,不知道怎么会出现这样的感觉,难道这就是书里说的初恋吗?其实,这不是什么初恋,只是青春期性成熟过程中某一阶段的一种表现。研究表明,中学生的性意识发展可分为五个阶段:1、希望了解性知识和两性差异的阶段;2、对异性明显的疏远阶段;3、对异性开始产生好感的阶段;4、模仿意义上的异性接触阶段;5、产生爱情萌芽并发展阶段。上述这位男孩的感受是第三阶段的一种反应:对异性产生好感,内心渴求来自异性朋友的关爱。
A boy who is about to graduate from junior high school tells the Psychology Science Hotline that he has been especially scared of seeing the girl in her class lately. She immediately shied away from her gaze, feeling nervous and acting like a wrongdoer , But can not help but want to see her glances, do not know how this feeling will arise, is this the first love in the book? In fact, this is not a first love, but a stage of adolescent sexual maturity, a performance . The research shows that the development of sexual consciousness of middle school students can be divided into five stages: 1, hope to understand the stage of sexual knowledge and gender differences; 2, the alienation obvious alienation stage; 3, the opposite sex began to have a good impression; 4, On the stage of heterosexual contact; 5, resulting in the budding stage of love and development. The boy’s feelings described above is a reaction of the third stage: a good impression on the opposite sex, the inner desire for love from the opposite sex friend.