被人拒绝不是一种舒服的滋味,谁也不希望自己的行为遭遇“不”字,但是生活不如意之事十有八九,经常地,在没有作好心理准备时,我们就遭遇拒绝了。是我们做错什么了吗?还是我们不值得被人喜欢……我们为此感到痛苦而自卑。其实,此时,来个心灵急转弯,你不但可以让自己的痛苦减轻一些,而且,你还可以因 It is not a comfortable taste to be rejected, no one wants his behavior to suffer “no”, but life is unhappy about the same thing, and often, when not mentally prepared, we encounter a rejection It’s Is it something that we did wrong or is it not worth we to be liked ... We feel pain and low self-esteem. In fact, at this moment, to a sharp turn of heart, you not only can make your own pain alleviate some, but, you can also because of