傅雷先生在给傅聪信中谈及,“另外一点我可以告诉你:就是我一生任何时期,闹恋爱最热烈的时候,也没有忘却对学问的忠诚.学问第一,艺术第一,真理第一,——爱情第二,这是我至此为止没有变过的原则”.(《傅雷家书》(增补本),三联版)然人非圣贤,傅先生青年时期在法国,也曾一度陷于迷惘. Fu Lei talked to Fu Cong letter, “Another point I can tell you is that at any time in my life, romance when the most enthusiastic, but also did not forget the loyalty to knowledge. Learning first, art first, truth first , - second love, this is the principle I have not changed so far. ”(“ Fu Lei Jia ”(supplement), triple edition) However, non-sages, Fu youth in France, once also confused .