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女儿小时候,亲戚送了一件小毛衣给她,毛茸茸的,特别好看。她穿上后发现很扎人,就不愿意再穿了。一次出门的时候,我让女儿穿上,还给她讲道理:穿上漂亮的衣服多可爱啊!女儿歪着头看着我说:“妈妈,你是只有我漂亮、可爱的时候才爱我吗?”我顿时汗颜。原来,我在乎的还是自己的感受。在女儿的成长中,她一直从我身上寻找一个感觉:如果没有这么多的外在条件,比如要学习好,比如要懂事,比如漂亮,妈妈还
When my daughter was young, my relative sent a small sweater to her, furry, especially attractive. When she was wearing it, she found she was very unwilling to wear it again. Once out, I let her daughter put it, and told her reasoning: wear beautiful clothes and more cute ah! Daughter tilted her head and said to me: “Mom, you are only my beautiful, lovely love Me? ”" I suddenly shame. It turned out that I care about their own feelings. In her daughter’s growth, she has been looking for a feeling from me: If there is not such a lot of external conditions, such as to learn, such as sensible, such as beautiful, mother also