笔者到一家单位调研时,恰逢他们评选优秀党员,平时一位各方面表现突出的党员干部杨某意外落选。问及原因,原来该单位本要派其支援西藏三年,杨某却以家人反对为由拒绝了。杨某提出儿子即将中考,妻子正准备职称考试,都需要人料理家事。为党牺牲个人利益他没意见,但如果牺牲到家人利益,必须以家人意见为重。这个问题在支部会议上引起了很大争议。有人说党员也应该有个人利益和追求,杨某提出妻儿的利益也是正当的;有人说作为党员干部,个人利益应该服 When I came to a unit for investigation, it coincided with their selection of outstanding party members. Usually, one outstanding member cadre Yang in all aspects unexpectedly dropped the election. When asked why, the original unit was supposed to send its support to Tibet for three years, but Yang refused it on the grounds of family opposition. Yang raised his son is about to sit in the exam, his wife is preparing for the exam, all need people to cook things. He did not mind sacrificing the party’s personal interests, but if his family’s interests were sacrificed, his opinions must be given priority. This issue has caused much controversy at the branch meeting. Some people say that party members should also have personal interests and pursuits. Yang suggested that his wife and children’s interests are justified. Some people say that as a party member and cadres, personal interests should be served