当今中国人最常见的性难题,不是阳痿、早泄、性冷淡,而是缺乏应有的性欲望!尤其是在平淡夫妻和长期独身的人群里,这种情况更为普遍。许多夫妻因为性生活越来越淡,便相互猜疑,如果实在找不到有“外心”的证据,只好来一句“年龄不饶人”作罢。也有一些人误以为只有外遇才能使自己重焕青春。其实,抑制性欲望的最主要因素,是长期积累起来的心理疲劳,这种心理疲劳对男性性欲的摧残更为严重,更为持久。心理疲劳并不是身体劳累,与性生活活动量的大小也没有关 Today’s Chinese are the most common sexual problems, not impotence, premature ejaculation, sexual frigidity, but the lack of sexual desire, especially in the flat couple and long-term celibacy crowd, this situation is more prevalent. Many couples because of the sex life more and more light, they suspect each other suspicious, if you really can not find there is “outside” evidence, had to say “age unforgiving ” give up. Some people mistakenly believe that only an affair can make themselves rejuvenated. In fact, the most important factor in suppressing sexual desire is the psychological fatigue accumulated over a long period of time. Such mental fatigue has more serious and long-lasting devastating effects on male sexuality. Psychological fatigue is not physical exertion, and the size of sexual activity has nothing to do