编辑同志: 我的父亲刚去世两个月,两个月来,我的四岁的独生子天天问我:“外公上哪儿去了呀?爸爸说外公死了,‘死’是什么意思呀?”问得我实在没法回答。请问,对这种年龄的孩子,怎么对她讲生和死的问题呢? 江西竺天明竺天明同志: 幼儿的思维有具体形象的特点。有关“生命”的概念是很抽象的,需要很多科学的知识和阅历才能有所理解,给一个四岁的孩子讲清“生”与“死”确实很难。和孩子朝夕相处的亲爱的外公突然从他的生活 Edit Comrades: My father just died two months, two months, my four-year-old only son asked me every day: “my grandfather where to go? Dad said the grandfather died, ’dead’ what is the meaning of it? ”Ask me I really can not answer. I would like to ask, for children of this age, how to talk about her life and death? Jiangxi Zhu Tianming Zhu Tianming comrades: children’s thinking has a specific image of the characteristics. The concept of “life ” is very abstract. It requires a lot of scientific knowledge and experience to understand it. It is really hard to tell a 4-year-old how to be born and die. My dear grandfather, who gets along with the child from day to day, suddenly lives from his life