女儿刚上学时,我就告诉她,学习是自己的事情,别人都帮不上忙,所以我很少管女儿的学习。正因为如此,老公经常说我不负责任。每当他这样说我的时候,我总是毫不客气地反问他:“你能负责她一辈子吗?我们都得为自己负责,不是吗?”我一直坚持着对女儿“不负责任”的教育,因为我不想让她养成依赖我的习惯。 When my daughter first went to school, I told her that learning was something for her and that others could not help so that I seldom care about my daughter’s learning. Because of this, my husband often says I am not responsible. Whenever he said so, I always bluntly asked him: “You can be responsible for her life? We have to be responsible for their own, is not it?” I always insisted on the daughter “ Responsibility ”education, because I do not want her to develop dependent on my habits.