不可否认,在现实中有些孩子的发展较一般孩子略显滞后,对于这样的孩子,家长应从以下几方面来培养他们的自信心。一、要多给予正面鼓励和表扬。能力再弱的孩子也有他的“闪光点”,要从发现他们的优点入手,及时给予肯定和鼓励,不断强化其积极向上的认同心理。二、不要把孩子的缺点挂在嘴上。要特别注意不要用“笨蛋”、“你真没治了”等语言。即使发现他们有某些缺点,也要用暗示的方法,以避免对他们产生心理压力。三、适当降低标准,使孩子有获得成功的机会。针对孩子的实际水平适当降低标准去要求他,鼓励他,往往会产生意想不到的效果。它会使孩子从不难获得的成功体验中 Admittedly, in reality, some children’s development lags behind that of ordinary children. For such children, parents should cultivate their self-confidence in the following aspects. First, give more positive encouragement and praise. Weak children also have his “flash point”, starting from the discovery of their merits, in a timely manner to give recognition and encouragement, continue to strengthen its positive and positive psychology. Second, do not hang the child’s shortcomings in his mouth. Pay special attention not to use “idiot”, “you really did not rule” and other languages. Even if they are found to have some shortcomings, they must use the implicit method to avoid psychological stress on them. Third, properly reduce the standard so that children have the opportunity to be successful. Dealing with the actual level of the child to lower the standard to ask him, encourage him, often have unexpected results. It will make it easy for children to experience success