“说”是人与人之间交流的一种重要形式。“说”往住体现着一种权利,得有人让你说,有人听你说,说着才有意义。 在家庭中,父母往往掌握着话语权,于是父母就往往过多地使用了这个权利,把“说”当作了惟一的教育孩子的方法。其实,“说”只是我们教育孩子的一种形式,有的时候,尤其是我们对孩子说得太多的今天,我们 “Saying” is an important form of communication between people. “Saying” to live reflects a right, someone asked you to say, some people listen to you, said only makes sense. In the family, parents often hold the right to speak, and as a result, parents often use the right too much to “speak” as the only way to educate their children. In fact, “say” is just a form of education for our children. Sometimes, especially when we say too much to our children, we