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严格说来,我们是一群好孩子,家长也承认我们并不坏,可是又常常向我们摇头,流露着无可奈何的心情。虽然我们有的只有十二、三岁,有的已经十六、七岁,但是很不幸,我们之中有些伙伴还带着很多无形的“帽子”:什么“不听话”啦,有“反抗性”啦,有“危险性”啦,还有什么“烦恼性”、“帮团性”、“教育的困难性”啦,等等,不一而足。“帽子”领受的越多,我们越是觉得在家呆着没意思,与父母没有可说的,倒是和同龄伙伴聚在一起心情要愉快得多,闲聊起来投个完,总嫌时间不够用。大家在一块儿互相交换着感兴趣的消息,谈论着学校里和社会生活中的各种新闻,议论着同学和朋友之间的关系,透露着不可公开的秘密,其中有行动计划、有幻想、有浪漫式的好感,甚至还有性的知识。没想到,这却引起了家长们
Strictly speaking, we are a group of good children. Parents admit that we are not bad, but they often shook our heads again and showed no alternative. Although we have only 12 or 13 years of age and some of us are already 16 and 7 years old, unfortunately, some of our partners still carry many invisible “hats”: what “disobedient ”, There are “resistance ” friends, “danger ” friends, “troubles ”, “help groups ”, “education difficult ” friends, and so on, One and enough. “Hat ” to accept the more we feel at home, boring boring, and parents can not say, it touches together with their peers, the mood is much happier chatting up and vote finished, the total time is not enough . We exchanged information of interest together, talking about various kinds of news in school and in social life, discussing the relationship between classmates and friends, disclosing the secrets that can not be disclosed, including the plan of action, the illusion, Have a romantic feeling, and even sexual knowledge. Unexpectedly, this has aroused parents