观察一个人的品格境界,可以从他对成功和失败的态度和反应上看出来。中国成语说:“成固欣然,败亦可喜。”虽然平和中正,却仍有待解说。一般人每逢失败,会忍不住唉声叹气、抱怨乃至骂娘,但还有一种人,他们绝不会去浪费时间让自己情绪低落,他们会在失败中,检查是否失中有得,而这一检查,或出之以沉默,像曾国藩,“打破牙齿和血吞”;或示之以笑脸,像李敖,即便是“一败涂地”,也会“躺在地上,细闻泥土和草根的清香”。这种对待失败的反应,无论沉默还是笑脸,都是一流的水准,非修养至深者难以做到。那么,对待成功又如何呢? Observing a person’s state of character can be seen in his attitude and reaction to success and failure. The Chinese idiom says: “It is gratifying to defeat and defeat is gratifying.” Although it is peaceful, it is yet to be explained. Everyone who fails fails to moan, sighs and even scolds, but there is a group of people who will never waste time trying to make themselves feel depressed. They will check if they have lost something in a failure. , Or out of silence, like Tseng Kuo-fan, “to break the teeth and swallow blood”; or to show a smile, like Li Ao, even “crushed” will “lie on the ground, smelt the fragrance of soil and grassroots.” This response to treatment failure, regardless of silence or smile, are first-class standard, non-cultivating those who are difficult to achieve. So, what about success?