常常听到有班主任抱怨:“我把心都掏给了学生,学生就是不领情!”为什么学生感受不到老师的“心”、体会不到老师的“情”呢?我认为这与教师没有很好地把握学生的心理特点,师生间没能建立起有效沟通的平台有关。所谓有效沟通,是指师生之间在心理上互相容纳,在情感上将心比心,即能理解对方、接受对方,能互相信任、彼此尊重。但这种和谐的师生关系,必须建立在师生双方彼此了解 Often hear a class teacher complain: “I dig my heart to the students, the students are not appreciate! ” Why do students feel the teacher “heart ”, can not understand the teacher “love ”? I think this is related to teachers not having a good grasp of the psychological characteristics of students, teachers and students failed to establish a platform for effective communication between. The so-called effective communication means that teachers and students mentally accommodate each other, in the emotional heart, that can understand each other, accept each other, trust each other, respect each other. However, this harmonious relationship between teachers and students must be based on mutual understanding between teachers and students