小建是我“心灵港湾”的听众,第一次写信给我是他升入市重点高中以后的第三个月。信里他说自己很痛苦,看过病,也服过医生给开的药物,可效果并不明显,他想得到“心灵港湾”的帮助。于是我约他面谈。 小建,中等身材,浓眉大眼,一脸正气,对人十分有礼貌,只是情绪低落,有些畏缩。他说自升入高中以后,就被一种莫名的情绪所困扰。 当我向他了解他的一些生活经历时,他紧锁的眉头松开了,侃侃而谈。从小父母十分注重全方面培养,所以自上幼儿园开始,在老师的眼里,他就是典型的优秀学生,小学四年级时他就做了大队长,出头露脸的事做了许多,风光极了,小学毕业被保送到区重点初中,他驾轻就熟地学习 Xiaojian is my listener to “Heart Harbor” and wrote for the first time to me that he was the third month after he entered the city’s key high school. In the letter, he said he was very painful. Having seen the illness and also served the medicine given by the doctor, the effect was not obvious. He wanted the help of “Harbor of Mind”. So I interviewed him. Small build, medium build, thick eyebrows big eyes, a look of righteousness, very polite to people, but depressed, some cringe. He said he was haunted by an inexplicable mood after he rose to high school. When I told him some of his life experiences, he locked the brow loosened, talked. Since childhood, my parents pay great attention to all aspects of training, so since the beginning of kindergarten, in the eyes of the teacher, he is a typical outstanding student, he was a captain in the fourth grade when he was a primary school, Primary school graduation was sent to the district focus junior high school, he learned