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有人说,人生最大的悲剧莫过于费尽千辛万苦爬到了梯子的顶端,却发现梯子靠在一面错误的墙上。家长,就是对孩子最初的人生架“梯子”的人。参观高档别墅,会不会激起孩子们的成功欲望?对部分孩子或许有用。尤其是除了参观之外,家长肯定平时还会不断言传身教,这都会使孩子的奋斗目标更多地向金钱和物质方面靠拢。但人生的理想,并不只有物质的指标。现在的中年人经历过物质上的贫乏,可能对财富更加敏感,更容易把成功定义成挣钱多少、房子大小、车子好坏。但对从小衣食无忧的孩子
Some people say that one of the biggest tragedies in life is to go to the top of the ladder with all their hard work and find the ladder against a wrong wall. Parents, is the child’s initial life frame “ladder ” people. Visit luxury villas, will not arouse the children’s desire for success? For some children may be useful. Especially in addition to visit, parents will usually continue to preach and teach, which will make the child’s goal more and more close to money and material. However, the ideal of life does not only have material indicators. Now middle-aged people have experienced material poverty, may be more sensitive to wealth, easier to define the success of how much to earn, the size of the house, the car is good or bad. But for children who are carefree children