希米·康在2015年11月20日《文汇报》撰文指出:身为父母究竟该培养孩子的什么技能呢?10年前,200多所大学和公司共同做了一项研究:21世纪最重要的技能是什么。包括创造力、合作能力、交流沟通能力、批判性思维、感知能力。但是所有的这一切就是适应力,这才是家长最需要培养孩子具备的能力。这也是现在大学最青睐的一种能力。我们如何培养具有这样的适应力的孩子呢?这就是笔者所说的“海豚式”育儿。作为“海豚式”父母,需要跟孩子建立紧密的联系,然后以正面的形象引导孩子,而非通过指导、催促这样的方式。海 In his article “Wen Wei Po,” November 20, 2015, Shimeikan pointed out: What skills should be fostered as parents? Ten years ago, more than 200 universities and companies jointly conducted a study: the 21st century is the most important What is the skill? Including creativity, cooperation ability, communication skills, critical thinking, perception. But all of this is about adaptability, which is what parents need most to develop their children’s abilities. This is also the most popular ability of a university. How do we cultivate children with such resilience? This is what the author calls “dolphin style” childcare. As a “dolphin-style” parent, there is a need to establish close ties with the child and then guide the child in a positive manner, rather than through instruction, urging this way. sea