生命中这一阶段的自我沉迷,不仅与青春期所发生的剧烈的生理变化有关,而且与发现同一性有关。青少年有时会在完全的自恋与自我憎恶之间来回地进行令人不知所措的转换。当青少年的自我概念(“真正的我”)与其理想的自我(“我希望成为的人”)之间存在较大的差距时,紧 Self-indulgence at this stage of life is not only related to the dramatic physiological changes that occur during adolescence, but also to the discovery of identity. Teenagers sometimes switch back and forth between complete narcissism and self-abhorrence at a loss. When there is a big gap between the adolescent self-concept ( “true me ”) and his ideal self ( “I want to be a man ”),