驻足于幼儿园大门口,稍作观察,不难发现接送孩子的家长中有一半是爷爷、奶奶等祖辈家长,他们在家庭中主要承担着照顾孩子的一切生活。不少家长的观念都是:趁现在孩子小,由老人负责照料还行,父母出去多赚些钱;等孩子上小学了,爸爸妈妈再关心孩子的学习。而生活中,我们经常听到家长说孩子在家是老虎,出门却是羊。细细分析,这种现象是一种时下普遍的“窝里横”行为,这种行为如何形成的呢?又如何帮助孩子矫正呢? Stop at the kindergarten entrance, a little observation, is not difficult to find that half of the parents who pick up and send their children are grandparents, grandmothers and other grandparents, who are mainly responsible for taking care of their children in their families. Many parents are the idea: taking advantage of the present child is small, the elderly responsible for taking care of it, parents go out and make more money; wait for children to primary school, mom and dad and then care about children’s learning. In life, we often hear parents say that children are tigers at home, but go out is sheep. Careful analysis, this phenomenon is a common nowadays "How to form this behavior? And how to help children correct it?