我一直很乐于助人。可时间一长,同学们似乎觉得我好欺负,什么事都找我帮忙。我又不好意思拒绝,结果有时为了帮别人,自己的事都没时间做而被耽搁。事情为什么会变成这样,难道我错了么?阿宝被人需要的感觉还是挺好的,你“乐”于助人肯定是因为感受到了帮忙的乐趣。你现在觉得不胜其烦,原因在于你失去了分寸感,对于所有请求来者不拒,结果反倒逐渐养成别人对你的一种习惯性依赖。同学们其实并没有欺负你,他们只是习惯了,或者说,他们被 I have been very helpful. Can be a long time, students seem to think I am good bully, what are looking for me to help. I am sorry to refuse, the result is sometimes to help others, do not have time to do their own things have been delayed. Why did things become like this, is it wrong for me? Bao is still feeling very good people need, you “music ” to help others is certainly because of the fun to feel help. You now feel overwhelmed, because you lose sense of proportion, for all those who request do not refuse, the result gradually formed others habitually rely on you. The students actually did not bully you, they just used to it, or they were