思宁老师:我周围有不少人,老是听不出好赖话。比如有位老兄,啥事儿都爱掺和,可老是弄不到点子上。大家烦他,但表面上都夸他有潜质。这哪是夸呀?分明是讥讽,可他就是听不出来,以为大家鼓励他呢,掺和的劲儿更足了。还有一位老妹儿,办事儿总是超常规,不考虑别人感受。大家同样看不惯,但嘴上总夸她有个性。她同样听不出来,照样东一榔头,西一棒子。真是没治了。这种人到底是怎么回事儿呢? Mr. Suning: There are a lot of people around me who can not hear any good words. For example, a man, what things love blending, can always get ideas. We annoy him, but on the surface all boast he has the potential. Which is boast? Clearly ridiculed, but he just could not hear it, I think everyone encouraged him, blending more full enough. There is also an old sister children, things are always unconventional child, do not consider other people’s feelings. We can not understand the same, but always boast she has personality. She also could not hear, still east a hammer, west stick. Really no cure. What happened to this kind of person?