一位妻子的疑问:我和丈夫是去年才结婚的,最近几天我们关系一直不好,谁也不理谁。那天夜里,我半梦半醒中感觉到睡在我身边的丈夫在做着一件事—手淫。当我明白是怎么回事时,感到很震惊——情愿自己“手洗”也不碰我,他这样做置我于何地?他是不是要故意做给我看?他是怎么想的?我不敢面对这一切……这是否已说明我们该离婚了?我该怎么办?一位丈夫的心事:我结婚已经两三年了,夫妻间的性生活很正常。可是,仍有一件事在困扰着我——除了和妻子同房外,我还常常自己 A wife’s question: My husband and I were married last year. In recent days, we have not had a good relationship and we have ignored anyone. That night, I woke up half awake feeling husband sleeping beside me doing one thing - masturbation. When I understand what is going on, I am shocked - I would rather myself “hand wash” do not touch me, he did this to me where he was? He is not intended to show me? How did he think ? I can not face it all ... Did this state that we should get divorced? What should I do? A husband’s mind: I have been married for two or three years, and the sexual life between husband and wife is normal. However, one thing is still bothering me - in addition to his wife’s bedroom, I often myself