古人有一幅对联是这样写的:“宠辱不惊,闲看庭前花开花落;去留无意,漫随天外云卷云舒”。意思是说,为人做事能视宠辱如花开花落般平常,才能处变不惊:视功名利禄去留如云卷云舒般变幻,才能无意。在我身边,很多人觉得活得很累,不堪家庭和事业重负。为什么社会在不断进步,经济和生活条件越来越好了,而人的负荷却不断加重呢?我想,是不是快速前进的 The ancients have a couplet is written like this: “Dishonor, indifferent to see the flowers in front of the house; to leave unintentional, diffuse clouds cloud Shu ”. The meaning is that doing things can be regarded as a pet, like a flowering as usual, in order to be able to be changed: visual fame and fortune to stay like a cloud of change, can no intention. By my side, many people feel very tired, family and career burden. Why is social progress, economic and living conditions getting better and better, and the human load has been increasing? I think, is not fast forward