成人与幼儿在日常生活中往往会产生一些相互期望冲突的现象,为使这种矛盾得以缓和或解决,成人会使出哄孩子的“招术”,而且常常行之有效。究其原因,一是成人对幼儿具有权威性,幼儿往往在成人所使出的哄招之下,轻易听从;二是成人的哄招往往带有诱惑性,使幼儿认为如照办的话,会有好处,而且以前有过类似的经验,便会对成人的哄招持信任心态,再次欣然照办。但是,成人的每一个哄招并非都能奏效。有的幼儿面对成人的哄招,或“利诱不动”、“威言不惧”,或以 Adults and young children tend to have some conflicts of mutual expectation in daily life. To ease or resolve this contradiction, adults can make a “trick” to coax their children and often work well. The reason is that adults are authoritative for young children. Children often follow the coaxing tactics employed by adults and are easily followed. Second, adult coaxing is often tempted to make young children think that if they do so, Benefits, and similar experiences have been used before, they will be confident about coaxing adults and are glad to do so again. However, each coaxing of adults does not always work. Some children face the temptation of adults or “indoctrination”, “reproach” or