美国著名儿童心理研究专家威廉·丹蒙曾经说过一句名言:“处处为孩子着想,已经成了不少父母溺爱孩子的冠冕堂皇的借口。”再来反观我们中国,那何尝不是这样啊!在中小学校的校门口总可以看到一群群父母等在校门口接孩子放学。即使到了孩子上大学,也有很多父母不惜路途遥远送孩子来学校,这类父母教育出来的孩子往往生活自理能力很差,衣服洗不干净,不知道如何收拾床铺。在学习和生活中遇到不顺心的事或者遇到困难的时候,自己 William Danmont, a famous expert on child psychology in the United States once made a famous remark: “Everywhere for the sake of children, has become a sound excuse for many parents spoil their children. ” Come back to our China, then why not! Primary and secondary schools in the school gate can always see a group of parents wait for children at school entrance after school. Even when their children go to college, many parents send their children to school far away from home. The children who are educated by these parents often have poor self-care ability and clothes are not clean and do not know how to clean up the beds. When I am experiencing a problem in my studies and life or when I am in trouble, I am