多年前我跟悉尼的一位同学谈话。那时他太太刚去世不久,他告诉我说,他在整理他太太东西的时候,发现了一条丝质的围巾,那是他们去纽约旅游时,在一家名牌店买的。那是一条雅致、漂亮的名牌围巾,高昂的价格标签还挂在上面,他太太一直舍不得用,她想等一个特殊的日子 Many years ago I talked to a classmate in Sydney. Shortly after his wife’s death, he told me that he had found a silk scarf when he was finishing his wife’s stuff. They bought it at a designer store when they were traveling to New York City. It was an elegant, beautiful designer scarf. The high price tag was still on the top. His wife was always reluctant to use it. She wanted to wait for a special day.