比之于认知上的影响,父亲的作用在对孩子的个性与社会化的影响方面更为显著。人的个性形成和发展受生物学因素、社会化因素与个体自我意识三者的制约。家庭是儿童的主要生活空间,父母是孩子的主要照料者和交往对象。父母的个性特点和为人处世方式或直接作用于孩子,或潜移默化地影响孩子的个性品质。有相当多的研究表明,孩子一出世就因性别的不同受到不同的对待,如父母总是鼓励男孩玩一些竞争 Than the cognitive impact of the father’s role in the child’s personality and social aspects of the more significant. The formation and development of human personality are restricted by biological factors, social factors and individual self-awareness. Family is the main living space for children, parents are the primary caregivers and contacts of children. Personality characteristics of parents and the way people act or directly affect the child, or subtly affect the child’s personality. A considerable amount of research shows that children are treated differently depending on their gender as soon as they are born, as parents always encourage boys to play some competition