家长告诫孩子最常用的一句话就是:“要用功学习!”“要用功学习”,这句话对不用功的孩子来说,是特别感到不愉快的命令之一。如果经常这样催促,孩子就会感到厌烦而产生对抗命令的逆反心理,不久,连老老实实地坐到书桌前都办不到了。 One of the most commonly used words that parents have warned their children is: “To study hard!” “To learn hard” is one of the particularly unpleasant orders that children who fail to work hard with. If so often urged, the child will feel annoyed and produce a rebellious mentality against the order, and soon, even the honest to sit at the desk can not do.