按照通俗的解释,面对某个事件或者突发情况时,人们脑海中自动出现的一种认识或者判断,可以称为习惯性思维。比如,看到孩子哭了,家长可能觉得他怎么这么脆弱呢?看到孩子写作业磨蹭,家长就马上反应:他就是爱偷懒,学习不认真。这些想法常常会自动出现,家长如果不加以内省,几乎觉察不到它们的存在,当然就更谈不上反思和怀疑它们的合理性 According to the popular explanation, in the face of an incident or unexpected situation, people’s minds automatically appear in a knowledge or judgment, can be called habitual thinking. For example, to see the child cry, parents may think he how so fragile? See the child’s homework dawdle, parents immediately react: he is love lazy, learning is not serious. These thoughts often appear automatically, and if parents do not introspect them, they hardly notice their existence, let alone reflect and doubt their rationality