总会在微博、空间或朋友圈中看到这样一条帖子:“谢谢你让我成为更好的人。”曾经一度觉得这是一条自欺欺人的帖子,可是等到经历了失恋,那个人离开,才明白这是一句多么好的话。这不是自欺欺人的说辞,而是一种自我成长的印记。某君离开的时候对我说:“离开我,你就什么也不是,你也走不远。”这句话在当时深深地伤害了我的自尊,也激励了我。我开始学会坚强,开始拼了命地努力,只想证明:离 I always see this post in Weibo, Space or a Circle of Friends: “Thank you for making me a better person.” “I used to think this was a self-deluding post, but when I went through a romance, the person left Only understand this is how good a word. This is not a self-deluding rhetoric, but a sign of self-growth. When a king left me, he said: ”You leave me, you are not far, you are not far away. " This sentence at the time deeply hurt my self-esteem, but also inspired me. I began to learn to be strong and began to fight hard, just want to prove: away