世上美丽的爱情多半都是男人想像出来的,比如《梁祝》、《罗密欧与朱丽叶》、《茶花女》等等,美丽则美丽矣,但略显肤浅。而另一种刻骨铭心的爱,像《简爱》、《呼啸山庄》、《情人》,往往出自女人之手,别看女人的手纤弱,写出的爱情却是很沉重的。男人的爱浪漫而绝望,女人的爱现实而充满创痛感,似乎只要是美丽的爱情,就必定伴随着苦难,这样方能显出爱的分量。 为什么会这样呢,为什么痴迷的爱情总要承受 Most of the beautiful love in the world is imagined by men, such as “Butterfly Lovers,” “Romeo and Juliet,” “Camellia,” and so on. Beauty is beautiful but slightly superficial. Yet another unforgettable love, like Jane Eyre, Wuthering Heights, and Lover, often comes from a woman’s hand, not to mention a woman’s hand that is too weak to write love. Romantic love and despair of a man, a woman’s love reality and full of pain, it seems that as long as a beautiful love, it must be accompanied by suffering, so as to show the weight of love. Why do so, why obsessed love always bear