在生活当中,你很可能沾染上自我轻视的病毒,唯一的治疗方法便是服用“自爱药丸”。 有不少人在交际场合会出现这种心理,既想接近别人,又怕被对方拒绝;既想在别人面前谈些自己的观点,又怕被别人耻笑。事先想好了许多话,可一站在生人面前就全忘了,仿佛大脑是一片空白,一句话也说不出来,只好躲在不引人注意的角落。事后,从前准备好的那些话却又一一再现出来,而且思维也开始活跃,后 In life, you are likely to be contaminated with self-defeating viruses. The only cure is to take “self-love pills.” There are many people in the communicative situation will appear this kind of mentality, both want to get close to others, afraid of being rejected by each other; both wanted to talk about their point of view in front of others, afraid of being ridiculed by others. Think of many things in advance, can stand in front of strangers to forget, as if the brain is a blank, a word can not tell, had to hide in the unobtrusive corner. Afterwards, those words that were prepared before are reproduced one after another, and thinking begins to be active again.