本文认为部分新写实小说对男女生命意识的性别差异进行了描述。这可以从男女对待爱情的态度以及他们生命力的韧性程度两个层面来进行探讨,由此我们从中看到了男女对待爱情的迥异和女性生命力的张扬与男性生命力的匮乏。然而这些新写实小说并未将这些差异加以虚构和夸大,而是遵循日常生活或者历史还原的原则,完成其直面生活、直面人生的艺术追求。 This paper argues that some of the new realistic novels describe the gender differences in the sense of life between men and women. This can be explored from the attitude of men and women towards love and the resilience of their vitality. From this we can see that men and women treat the difference between love and the vitality of women and the lack of vitality of men. However, these new realistic novels do not fictionalize and exaggerate these differences. Instead, they follow the principle of daily life or historical restoration to accomplish their artistic pursuit of facing life and facing life directly.